י מני מתניתין אי רבי מאיר הא לית ליה מכלל
10 — [IN ALL THESE CASES] HE IS PERMITTED. IF ONE SAYS TO HIS WIFE, 'BEHOLD! THOU ART UNTO ME AS MY MOTHER,'<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' I.e., forbidden. ');"><sup>19</sup></span> HE MUST BE GIVEN AN OPENING ON OTHER GROUNDS,<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' Lit., 'from another place'. I.e., when he wishes his vow to be annulled, the Rabbi, who must find for him some grounds of regret to invalidate his vow, must not do so by pointing out that such a vow is derogatory to his mother's dignity. ');"><sup>20</sup></span> IN ORDER THAT HE SHOULD NOT ACT FRIVOLOUSLY IN SUCH MATTERS.<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' His mother's honour is too easy a ground for regret, and if the vow is invalidated on that score it is an encouragement to make such vows lightly, since they can easily be annulled. The making of vows was discouraged: cf. 9a. ');"><sup>21</sup></span> <b><i>GEMARA</i></b>. Now, the reason is because he said, 'WHAT I MIGHT EAT OF YOURS BE HULLIN'; but if he said, 'What I might eat of yours be lehullin,' it would imply: let it not be hullin but a korban.<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' And the vow would be binding. ');"><sup>22</sup></span> Whose view is taught in our Mishnah? If R. Meir's, but he does not hold