Yevamot 189

Chapter 189

א אחות אשה דבמזיד לא אסירא מדאורייתא בשוגג לא גזרו בה רבנן ומנלן דלא אסירא דתניא (במדבר ה, יג) אותה אותה שכיבתה אוסרתה ואין שכיבת אחותה אוסרתה
1 with his wife's sister, however, presumptuous [marriage with whom does] not [cause his first wife to be] forbidden [to him] by Pentateuchal law, no preventive measure has been instituted by the Rabbis in her case where [he acted] unwittingly.<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' As is the case in our Mishnah. ');"><sup>1</sup></span> Whence, however, is it deduced that she<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' A wife whose husband has had connubial intercourse with her sister. ');"><sup>2</sup></span> is not forbidden?<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' To her husband, in accordance with Pentateuchal law. ');"><sup>3</sup></span> — [From that] which was taught: With her;<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' And a man lie with her, Num. V, 13. ');"><sup>4</sup></span>
ב שיכול והלא דין הוא ומה במקום שבא על איסור קל נאסר האוסר מקום שבא על איסור חמור אינו דין שנאסר האוסר
2 only cohabitation<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' Of a stranger. ');"><sup>5</sup></span> with her causes her to be prohibited;<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' To her husband, in accordance with Pentateuchal law. ');"><sup>3</sup></span> cohabitation<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' Of her husband. ');"><sup>6</sup></span> with her sister, however, does not cause her to be prohibited. [This, Scriptural text was required] since [otherwise] It might have been argued [as follows]: If where a man cohabited with [a woman forbidden by] a lighter prohibition.<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' This, as will be explained infra, refers to a married woman, intercourse with whom is regarded as a comparatively lighter prohibition than that of a wife's sister (v. p. 644, n. 5), since it may at any time be raised by means of a letter of divorce severing the relationship between the husband and the wife. ');"><sup>7</sup></span>
ג א"ר יהודה לא נחלקו בית שמאי ובית הלל בבא על חמותו שפוסל את אשתו על מה נחלקו בבא על אחות אשתו שב"ש אומרים פוסל וב"ה אומרים לא פוסל א"ר יוסי לא נחלקו ב"ש וב"ה בבא על אחות אשתו שלא פוסל את אשתו על מה נחלקו בבא על חמותו שב"ש אומרים פוסל וב"ה אומרים לא פוסל
3 [the person]<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' The husband. ');"><sup>8</sup></span> who caused the prohibition [itself]<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' The husband causes the prohibition of his wife to all men. It is owing to his marriage with her that she is forbidden to marry any other man. ');"><sup>9</sup></span> is forbidden [to her],<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' One must not retain a faithless wife. ');"><sup>10</sup></span> how much more should [the person]<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' I.e., the wife who caused the prohibition of her sister to her husband. ');"><sup>11</sup></span>
ד לפי שבתחלה הוא מותר בכל הנשים שבעולם והיא מותרת בכל האנשים שבעולם קדשה הוא אוסרה והיא אסרתו מרובה איסור שאסרה מאיסור שאסרתהו שהוא אסרה בכל אנשי' שבעולם והיא לא אסרתהו אלא בקרובותיה
4 who caused the prohibition become forbidden in the case of cohabiting with [one<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' His wife's sister. ');"><sup>12</sup></span> forbidden by] a heavier prohibition.<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' Since his wife causes her sister to be forbidden to him during the whole of her lifetime. Hence It was necessary to have a Scriptural text to shew that the law is not so. ');"><sup>13</sup></span> R. Judah stated: Beth Shammai and Beth Hillel are agreed<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' Lit., 'did not dispute'. ');"><sup>14</sup></span> that a man who cohabited with his mother-in-law renders his wife unfit [to live with him]; they only differ where a man cohabited with his wife's sister, in which case Beth Shammai maintain that thereby he causes [his wife] to be unfit for him, while Beth Hillel maintain that he does not thereby cause her to be unfit for him.
ה והלא דין הוא ומה הוא שאסרה בכל אנשים שבעולם שגגה באסור לה אינה נאסרת במותר לה היא שלא אסרתהו אלא בקרובותיה שגג באסור לו אינו דין שלא נאסר לו במותר לו
5 R. Jose stated: Beth Shammai and Beth Hillel are agreed<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' Lit., 'did not dispute'. ');"><sup>14</sup></span> that a man who cohabits with his wife's sister does not thereby render his wife unfit for him; they differ only where a man cohabited with his mother-in-law, in which case Beth Shammai maintain that thereby he causes [his wife] to be unfit for him, while Beth Hillel maintain that he does not thereby cause her to be unfit for him. [Both agree]<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' That cohabitation with his wife's sister does not render his wife unfit to live with him. ');"><sup>15</sup></span> for the following reason:<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' Lit., 'because'. ');"><sup>16</sup></span> Originally all the women of the world were permitted to him,<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' The husband, before he married his wife. ');"><sup>17</sup></span>
ו וזה הדין לשוגג למזיד מנין ת"ל אותה אותה שכיבתה אוסרתה ואין שכיבת אחותה אוסרתה
6 and all the men of the world were permitted to her;<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' The wife, before she married her husband. ');"><sup>18</sup></span> but when he betrothed her he imposed a prohibition upon her and she imposed a prohibition upon him; the prohibition, however, which he imposed upon her is greater than the prohibition which she imposes upon him, since he caused all the men of the world to be forbidden to her, while she caused her relatives only to be forbidden to him. This,<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' V. supra n. 7. ');"><sup>19</sup></span> then, may be arrived at by an inference: If she, to whom he<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' Her husband. ');"><sup>20</sup></span> caused<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' By marrying her. ');"><sup>21</sup></span>
ז אמר רבי אמי אמר ריש לקיש מאי טעמא דרבי יהודה דכתיב (ויקרא כ, יד) באש ישרפו אותו ואתהן וכי כל הבית כולו בשרפה אם אינו ענין לשרפה תנהו ענין לאיסורא
7 all the men in the world to be prohibited, is, if she cohabited unwittingly with one who was forbidden to her,<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' If, for instance, she was outraged. ');"><sup>22</sup></span> not forbidden to the man<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' Her husband. ');"><sup>23</sup></span> who was permitted to her,<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' Her husband. Cf. supra 56b. ');"><sup>24</sup></span> how much more reason is there why he<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' Her husband. ');"><sup>23</sup></span>
ח אמר רב יהודה אמר שמואל אין הלכה כרבי יהודה ההוא דעבד איסורא בחמתיה אתייה רב יהודה נגדיה אמר ליה אי לאו דאמר שמואל אין הלכה כרבי יהודה אסריתה עלך איסורא דעלם:
8 to whom she<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' His wife. ');"><sup>25</sup></span> caused<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' By marrying him. ');"><sup>26</sup></span> the prohibition of her relatives only, should, if he cohabited unwittingly with one who was forbidden to him,<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' His wife's sister. ');"><sup>27</sup></span> not be forbidden<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' 'To him' in cur. edd. is deleted with BaH. ');"><sup>28</sup></span>
ט מאי איסור קל אמר רב חסדא מחזיר גרושתו משנשאת
9 to her<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' His wife. ');"><sup>25</sup></span> who was permitted to him. This argument is applicable to one who acted unwittingly. Whence is it deduced [that the same law<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' V. supra p. 644, n. 7. ');"><sup>29</sup></span> is applicable] to one who acted wilfully? It was expressly stated With her,<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' Num. V, 13. V. supra p. 643. n. 10. ');"><sup>30</sup></span> cohabitation<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' Of a stranger. ');"><sup>31</sup></span>
י בא עליה האי אסרה עליה דהאי בא עליה אידך אסרה עליה דהאי
10 with her only causes her to be prohibited;<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' To her husband. ');"><sup>32</sup></span> cohabitation<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' Of her husband. ');"><sup>33</sup></span> with her sister, however, does not cause her to be prohibited.<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' To her husband. ');"><sup>32</sup></span> Said R. Ammi in the name of Resh Lakish: What is R. Judah's reason?<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' For maintaining that both Beth Shammai and Beth Hillel agree that a man's cohabitation with his mother-in-law causes his wife to be prohibited to him. ');"><sup>34</sup></span>
יא מה למחזיר גרושתו משנשאת שכן נטמא הגוף ואיסורה ברוב ואיסורה איסור עולם
11 — Because it is written, They shall be burnt with fire. both he and they;<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' Lev. XX, 14. Cf. supra p. 642, n. 9. ');"><sup>35</sup></span> is the whole household to be burned!<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' His first wife, surely, who was lawfully married, should not suffer because her husband bad subsequently contracted an unlawful marriage! ');"><sup>36</sup></span> If this, then, is not a case for burning<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' His first wife, surely, who was lawfully married, should not suffer because her husband bad subsequently contracted an unlawful marriage! ');"><sup>36</sup></span> regard the text as indicating a prohibition.<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' V. supra note 13. ');"><sup>37</sup></span>
יב אלא אמר ר"ל יבמה יבמה למאן אילימא לאחר וכדרב המנונא דאמר רב המנונא שומרת יבם שזינתה אסורה ליבמה
12 Rab Judah stated in the name of Samuel: The law is not in agreement with R. Judah.<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' V. supra note 13. ');"><sup>37</sup></span> A man once committed incest with his mother-in-law, and Rab Judah summoned him and ordered him to receive a flogging. 'Had Samuel not stated', he said to him, 'that the law was not in agreement with R. Judah. I would have forbidden [your wife] to you for all time'. What was meant by a 'lighter prohibition'?<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' Spoken of supra. ');"><sup>38</sup></span> — R. Hisda replied: Remarrying one's divorced wife after her marriage to another man — 39 When that man<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' Her second husband. ');"><sup>40</sup></span>
יג מה ליבמה שכן נטמא הגוף ואיסורה ברוב
13 cohabited with her, he caused her to be prohibited to the other,<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' Her first husband. ');"><sup>41</sup></span> and when the other<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' Her first husband. ');"><sup>41</sup></span> cohabited with her<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' After her second husband had divorced her. ');"><sup>42</sup></span> he caused her to be prohibited to the former.<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' V. supra p. 645, n. 18, the prohibition being due to the prohibitory law in Deut. XXIV, 4. Thus the second husband 'who caused the prohibition of his wife is thereby himself forbidden to her'. ');"><sup>43</sup></span>
יד אלא יבמה לאחין עבד בה מאמר האי אסרה עליה דהאי בא עליה אידך אסרה עליה דהאי מאי איריא שבא עליה שני אפי' עבד בה נמי מאמר
14 [But, it may be argued,] remarrying one's divorced wife after her marriage to another man is different<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' From a marriage with one's wife's sister. ');"><sup>44</sup></span> since her body<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' That of the divorced woman. ');"><sup>45</sup></span> was defiled and she is<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' Cur. edd., insert, 'and she is prohibited to the majority' which (cf. Rashi a.l.) is to be deleted. ');"><sup>46</sup></span> prohibited for all time!<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' To both husbands. A wife's sister, however, is forbidden only during the lifetime of one's wife but permitted after her death, while furthermore the marriage of a wife's sister does not cause the defilement of the wife's body. The latter case cannot, therefore, be compared to the former. What, then, was meant by the 'lighter prohibition'? ');"><sup>47</sup></span>
טו הא לא קשיא כר"ג דאמר אין מאמר אחר מאמר אלא אפילו נתן לה גט ואפילו חלץ לה
15 — Rather, said Resh Lakish, [it means] a <i>yebamah</i>.<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' Marriage with her by a stranger is regarded as a 'lighter prohibition'. ');"><sup>48</sup></span> A <i>yebamah</i> with whom?<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' I.e., with whom did she cohabit that her act should have the result that he 'who caused the prohibition is thereby himself forbidden to her'? ');"><sup>49</sup></span> If it be suggested: With a stranger,<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' The prohibition to marry whom, before she had performed the halizah, is only a prohibitory law involving no kareth. ');"><sup>50</sup></span> [the ruling] being in accordance with R. Hamnuna who ruled<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' Supra 81a, 92b, Cit. 80b, Sot. 18b. ');"><sup>51</sup></span>
טז אלא אמר רבי יוחנן סוטה סוטה למאן אילימא לבעל בא עליה בעל אסרה עליה דבועל מאי איריא בא עליה אפילו נתן לה גט ואפילו אמר אין אני משקה
16 that a woman awaiting the decision of the levir who played the harlot is forbidden to the levir,<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' Thus the levir 'who caused the prohibition' of his sister-in-law to others is 'himself forbidden to her' by the cohabitation of the stranger. ');"><sup>52</sup></span> [it may be objected that] a <i>yebamah</i> is different,<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' From a marriage with one's wife's sister. ');"><sup>44</sup></span> since her body was defiled and she is prohibited to the majority of men.<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' I.e., to everybody except the levir or levirs. A wife's sister, however, is forbidden to him (her sister's husband) alone, and his wife's body is not defiled by his marriage with her sister. The two cases, therefore, cannot be compared. ');"><sup>53</sup></span> If, however, [it be suggested that it refers<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' Cf. supra note 6. ');"><sup>54</sup></span>
יז אלא סוטה לבועל האי איסור קל הוא איסור חמור הוא דהיינו אשת איש
17 to] a <i>yebamah</i> in relation to [her deceased husband's] brothers: Where one [brother, for instance] addressed to her a ma'amar he caused her to be prohibited to the other,<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' Brother, this being regarded as a 'lighter prohibition', since it is due to a Rabbinic measure only. ');"><sup>55</sup></span> and when the other cohabited with her he caused her to be prohibited to the former.<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' Cf. supra note so, mutatis mutandis. ');"><sup>56</sup></span> [But in this case] what point is there, [it may be retorted, in stating]<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' Supra. ');"><sup>57</sup></span> that the second cohabited with her,<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' I.e., that be prohibits her to the first only because he cohabited with her. ');"><sup>58</sup></span> [when the same law is applicable] also even where he<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' The second brother. ');"><sup>59</sup></span> only addressed to her a ma'amar!<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' He should still thereby prohibit her to the first brother, in view of the ruling supra 50a that a ma'amar is effective after a ma'amar. ');"><sup>60</sup></span> — This is no difficulty; [a ma'amar could not be postulated], in accordance with R. Gamaliel who ruled: There is no validity in a ma'amar that was addressed after a previous ma'amar.<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' Supra 50a. ');"><sup>61</sup></span> But [still the objection is that the same law is applicable] even if he<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' The second brother. ');"><sup>59</sup></span> gave her a letter of divorce and even if he submitted to her <i>halizah</i>! — Rather, said R. Johanan, [it means] a <i>sotah</i>.<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' V. Glos. Cohabitation with a sotah is regarded as the 'lighter prohibition'. ');"><sup>62</sup></span> A <i>sotah</i>, with whom?<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' V. supra p. 646, n. 7. ');"><sup>63</sup></span> If it be suggested: With her husband who, if he cohabited with her,<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' After she had been warned by him against intimacy with a stranger, and after she had met that stranger privately, when all connubial intercourse between the woman and her husband is forbidden. ');"><sup>64</sup></span> caused her to be prohibited to her seducer,<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' Even after his own death or after he had divorced her. Thus, the seducer 'who caused the prohibition' of the woman to her husband becomes 'himself forbidden' to her for all time. ');"><sup>65</sup></span> what point is there, [it may be objected, in stating] that he cohabited with her? Even if he<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' Her husband. ');"><sup>66</sup></span> only gave her a letter of divorce and even if he only said, 'I am not allowing her to drink',<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' The water of bitterness (cf. Num. V, 18). V. supra n. 6. ');"><sup>67</sup></span> [the same law is applicable]!<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' She becomes forbidden to the seducer for all time. Cf. supra n' 7. ');"><sup>68</sup></span> [If it be suggested] however: The <i>sotah</i> with the seducer;<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' By his cohabitation the woman becomes prohibited to her husband who was the cause of her prohibition to others. ');"><sup>69</sup></span> is this<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' Cohabitation with a married woman. ');"><sup>70</sup></span> [it may be objected] a 'lighter prohibition'? It is surely a grave prohibition, since she is a married woman!