כה וליטעמיך ובגדול עד שיבא ממדינת הים אין שומעין לו אמאי נינטר דלמא אתי וחליץ אלא כל שהויי מצוה לא משהינן
25 RETURNS FROM A COUNTRY BEYOND THE SEA OR [UNTIL A BROTHER WHO WAS] DEAF<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' [H] in Rabbinic literature usually signifies one who is deaf from birth. Hence 'a deaf-mute'. ');"><sup>44</sup></span> OR AN IMBECILE [SHOULD RECOVER],<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' [Tosaf.: He referred her to a deaf brother etc.]. ');"><sup>45</sup></span> HE IS NOT TO BE LISTENED TO, BUT IS TOLD, 'THE DUTY IS INCUMBENT UPON YOU; EITHER SUBMIT TO <i>HALIZAH</i> OR PERFORM THE LEVIRATE MARRIAGE. <b><i>GEMARA</i></b>. It was stated: [On the relative importance of] the intercourse of a younger, and the <i>halizah</i> of an elder brother there is a difference of opinion between R. Johanan and R. Joshua b. Levi. One holds that the intercourse of the younger is preferable and the other holds that the <i>halizah</i> of the elder is preferable. 'One<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' Lit., 'he who'. ');"><sup>46</sup></span> holds that the intercourse of the younger is preferable,' because the commandment, surely, is to perform the levirate marriage;<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' Halizah being merely a substitute for it. ');"><sup>47</sup></span> and 'the other<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' Lit., 'he who'. ');"><sup>46</sup></span> holds that the <i>halizah</i> of the elder is preferable', because in the presence of an elder brother the intercourse of the younger is valueless.<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' Since the duty is, in the first instance, incumbent upon the elder. ');"><sup>48</sup></span> We learned, IF HE DECLINED, ALL THE OTHER BROTHERS ARE APPROACHED IN TURN. Does not this mean that he declined to contract the levirate marriage but [was willing] to submit to the <i>halizah</i>? And yet it was stated, ALL THE OTHER BROTHERS ARE APPROACHED IN TURN, which proves<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' Since the younger brothers are asked to contract the levirate marriage when the elder expressed his willingness to submit to halizah. ');"><sup>49</sup></span> that the intercourse of a younger brother is preferred! — No; he wished neither to submit to <i>halizah</i> nor to perform the levirate marriage. Similarly, then, in the case of the other brothers, [the meaning is that] they declined both <i>halizah</i> and levirate marriage;<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' Since the same expression of unwillingness is used. ');"><sup>50</sup></span> why, then, is THE ELDEST AGAIN APPROACHED with the object of bringing pressure upon him? Let pressure be brought to bear upon them!<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' If the eldest had only refused marriage but was willing to submit to halizah, as has first been assumed, one could explain our Mishnah to mean that 'THE ELDEST IS AGAIN APPROACHED with a view to halizah'; he being the eldest, halizah also is first offered to him. If, however, he refused both halizah and marriage, as has now been explained, and the object of approaching him is coercion, why should the Beth din be troubled to summon him again in order to coerce him when any of the brothers who happens to be near at hand might just as well be coerced? ');"><sup>51</sup></span> — As the duty<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' Of the levirate marriage. V. our Mishnah. ');"><sup>52</sup></span> is incumbent upon him, pressure also must be used against him. We learned, IF HE WISHED TO SUSPEND ACTION UNTIL A MINOR BECOMES OF AGE … HE IS NOT TO BE LISTENED TO. But if the intercourse of a minor is to be preferred, why IS HE NOT TO BE LISTENED TO? Let us rather wait, since on becoming of age he might contract the levirate marriage! — Following your view [it might similarly be objected], why [if he wished to wait] UNTIL THE ELDEST RETURNS FROM A COUNTRY BEYOND THE SEA … HE IS NOT TO BE LISTENED TO? Let us rather wait, since on his return he might contract the levirate marriage!<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' So marginal gloss. Cur. edd., 'and submits to halizah'. ');"><sup>53</sup></span> The fact is that the performance of a commandment must not be delayed.<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' And this is the only reason why his request is not granted. ');"><sup>54</sup></span>