Halakhah for Nedarim 39:3
על כולן אין נשאלין להם ואם נשאלו עונשין אותן ומחמירין עליהן דברי רבי מאיר
AND THEN STATES. 'I VOWED ONLY BY THE EZEM [BONE] WHICH I KEEP FOR THE PURPOSE OF VOWING';<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' [In order to give the impression to the hearer that I am making a vow.] ');"><sup>5</sup></span> [IF ONE SAYS,] 'KONAM BE ANY BENEFIT MY WIFE HAS OF ME, AND THEN DECLARES, I SPOKE ONLY OF MY FIRST WIFE, WHOM I HAVE DIVORCED (IF NONE OF THESE [VOWS] DO THEY REQUIRE TO SEEK ABSOLUTION.<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' Being invalid, according to the meaning assigned to them. ');"><sup>6</sup></span>
Tur
And if he was married he should not be too regular (often) with his wife, and if as they say "that talmidai chachomim should not be found by their wifes and roosters" (this ment) not sposificly talmidai chachomim but the same law is also every man, they wrote "talmidai chachomim" since abstinent if found by them, ...
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