Quotation for Nedarim 32:3
חומר בנדרים מבשבועות כיצד כו': רב כהנא מתני אמר רב גידל אמר רב ורב טביומי מתני אמר רב גידל אמר שמואל מניין שאין נשבעין לעבור על המצות תלמוד לומר לא יחל דברו דברו לא יחל אבל מיחל הוא לחפצי שמים
[this implies,] he may not break his word,<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' I.e., when it refers to human, optional matters. ');"><sup>5</sup></span> but he must break a word [i.e., an oath] in respect of Heavenly matters.<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' I.e., when the subject of the vow is obligatory. ');"><sup>6</sup></span>
Sefat Emet
In the verse, 'Thus shall you say' etc., for the 'women [...] with gentle language' etc., 'and tell [...] harsh matters'. And there's a difficulty, that with one expression being said, according to Rashi, 'in this language and in this order'. And perhaps one could say that really these words are for women and those who are lacking understanding. They are only words of encouragement how the Holy One, blessed be He, brought us close and uplifted us. But people that understand, know that this is not a small thing and that they are receiving with this, a great and awesome yoke to serve the Creator of the world and to clarify his kingdom, may it be blessed, in the world. And therefore it says with this expression and in this order that it was revealed before Him, may He be blessed, that with this expression each person will continue according to their path. The women with encouragement. And the men with an awesome undertaking. And in the Gemora we also find a disagreement whether commandments were given to us to derive benefit from. And the law is that they weren't given to us to derive benefit from, as mentioned above.
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