Quotation for Pesachim 217:4
רבי יהודה אומר אנשים בראוי להם ונשים בראוי להן אנשים בראוי להם ביין ונשים במאי תני רב יוסף בבבל בבגדי צבעונין בארץ ישראל בבגדי פשתן מגוהצין
Wherewith does he make them rejoice? With wine. R'Judah said: Men with what is suitable for them, and women with, what is suitable for them.'
Tosefta Pesachim
It is a mitzvah for a person to make his children and the members of his house happy on the festivals. Through what [should he make them happy]? With wine! [As it is written (Psalm 104): "And wine will make the heart of man happy, etc."]. Rabbi Yehudah said: [Women] with what is nice for them and children with what is nice for them.
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