Quoting%20commentary for Ketubot 127:6
מאי שנא שומרת יבם דלא דאמרינן לה זיל לא מפקדת ארוסה נמי נימא לה זיל לא מפקדת אלא בבאה מחמת טענה דאמרה בעינא חוטרא לידא ומרה לקבורה
Why is a woman awaiting the decision of the levir different that no [certificate of rebellion should be issued on her behalf]? Obviously because we tell her, “Go, you are not commanded.” A betrothed woman they should also say to her, “Go, you are not commanded.” Rather [it is a case] where she comes with the plea, saying, “I wish to have a staff in my hand and a spade for my burial,”
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