Reference for Gittin 59:5

הא כמאן דאמר יש אונס בגיטין הא כמאן דאמר אין אונס בגיטין:

According to another version, R. Joseph said: Must he offer her a bag of gold coins? He has done his best to make it up with her, but she would not be reconciled. [The latter version] fits in with the view that in the matter of a Get allowance is made for circumstances over which one has no control,<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' I.e., he can plead that he has not a bag of gold coins. ');">⁴</span>

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