Reference for Kiddushin 36:4
תא שמע בבגדו בה כיון שפירש טליתו עליה שוב אינו רשאי למוכרה זבוני הוא דלא מזבין לה הא יעודי מייעד לה ואי אמרת נישואין עושה כיון דנישאת שוב אין לאביה רשות בה אלא לאו שמע מינה אירוסין עושה
The difference is in respec of inheriting her property, defiling himself on her account, and annulling her vows.<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' The heir of an arusah is her father; of a nesu'ah, her husband. A priest must (or may, v. Sotah 3a) defile himself on account of his deceased wife, if a nesu'ah, but not if an arusah. The vows of an arusah, if a na'arah (q.v. Glos.) can only be annulled by her husband and father jointly; those of a nesu'ah, by her husband alone.');"><sup>7</sup></span> What is the law? - Come and hear: 'Seeing that he hath dealt deceitfully with her [be-bigedo bah]: once he spread his cloak over her, he can no longer sell her'. Thus, he merely may not sell her, yet may indeed designate her.<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' I.e., give her in marriage.');"><sup>8</sup></span>