Reference for Kiddushin 81:10

ושלחה מלמד שהיא עושה שליח ושלח ושלחה מלמד שהשליח עושה שליח

Only when a na'arah, but not when a minor: this supports Rab. For Rab Judah said in Rab's name: One may not give his daughter in betrothal when a minor, [but must wait] until she grows up and says: 'I want So-and-so'.

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