Reference for Nedarim 181:5

מתיב רב משרשיא השמים ביני לבינך דמשנה ראשונה תיובתא דרבא הכא דלית לה כיסופא וקתני דמהימנא קסבר רבא התם כיון דלא סגי לה דלא אמרה אין יורה כחץ אי לא איתא כדקאמרה לא אמרה ליה

Said Raba to him: On the contrary. even according to the first Mishnah, that she is believed, it is [only] there, because she would not expose herself to shame;<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' If she had not actually been ravished. ');">⁸</span> but here it may happen that she is stronger [in character] than her husband,<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' So Ran. Rashi: her husband might have ill-treated her; she has conceived a strong passion for (another) man. ');">⁹</span>

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