Reference for Yevamot 215:4
רבי חנינא בן אנטיגנוס אומר כל תינוקת וכו': אמר רב יהודה אמר שמואל הלכה כרבי חנינא בן אנטיגנוס תנא קטנה שלא מיאנה ועמדה ונשאת משום רבי יהודה בן בתירה אמרו נישואיה הן הן מיאוניה
a declaration of refusal. R. Judah said more than this:<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' V. supra note 3. ');"><sup>9</sup></span> Even if, while the wedding guests were reclining [on their dining couches] in her husband's house and she was standing and waiting<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' Lit., 'and giving drink'. ');"><sup>10</sup></span> upon them, she said to them, 'I do not want my husband So-and-so', her statement<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' Though her waiting upon the guests might seem to contradict her declaration, and though no proper Beth din is present. ');"><sup>11</sup></span>