Reference for Yevamot 236:17
אביי אמר דשומשמנא גברא כורסיה בי חרתא רמו לה רב פפא אמר דנפצא גברא תיקרי בסיפי בבא ותיתיב
Said Rabina to Raba: What [is the legal decision] if a husband transferred to his wife [through an agent]<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' V. p. 838. n' 4. ');"><sup>42</sup></span> the possession of a letter of divorce at a time<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' Lit., 'in the place of'. ');"><sup>43</sup></span> when a quarrel [raged between them]? [Is the divorce], since she has a quarrel with her husband, an advantage to her or [is it a disadvantage, since] the gratification of bodily desires is possibly preferred by her?<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' She might prefer a married life in quarrels to a peaceful life of separation. ');"><sup>44</sup></span>