Related for Sotah 49:17
וכשבאתי אצל חבירי שבדרום על שנים הודו לי ועל זקן ממרא לא הודו לי שלא ירבו מחלוקת בישראל ש"מ בעל שמחל על קינויו קינויו מחול ש"מ
— As a general rule, a man agrees with the opinion of a Court of Law.<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' But if he wishes to retract he may do so. ');"><sup>14</sup></span>
Tosefta Ketubot
All of these women that transgressed custom need [a formal, legal] warning [in order to] go out without the ketubah. If they were not warned, he sends her out and pays her ketubah—and they don't need to [this about] say 200 for a virgin or 100 for a non-virgin [that of course if she leaves without her ketubah she doesn't get this money], but even more than this, even if her ketubah is 100 maneh, she can lose it all and receive only the rags that she can find in front of her.
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