Related for Sotah 49:21
ואי אמרת לאחר סתירה מחול לה משכחת לה דיש לה היתר דאי בעי מחיל ליה לקינויה ובעיל אלא ש"מ לאחר סתירה אינו מחול שמע מינה
If a husband retracted his warning the warning is retracted; if a Court of Law wished to pardon an elder who rebelled [against their decision] they may pardon him; and if the parents wished to forgive a stubborn and rebellious son<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' Cf. Deut. XXI, 18ff. ');"><sup>18</sup></span>
Tosefta Ketubot
All of these women that transgressed custom need [a formal, legal] warning [in order to] go out without the ketubah. If they were not warned, he sends her out and pays her ketubah—and they don't need to [this about] say 200 for a virgin or 100 for a non-virgin [that of course if she leaves without her ketubah she doesn't get this money], but even more than this, even if her ketubah is 100 maneh, she can lose it all and receive only the rags that she can find in front of her.
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