Related for Sotah 49:6
מישתא הוא דלא שתיא הא קנויי מקני להו ולמאי אי לאוסרן עליו הא אסירן וקיימן אלא לאו להפסידן כתובתן
as it has been taught: We may not warn a betrothed maiden with the object of making her drink while she is betrothed; but we may warn a betrothed maiden with the object of making her drink when she is married.
Tosefta Ketubot
All of these women that transgressed custom need [a formal, legal] warning [in order to] go out without the ketubah. If they were not warned, he sends her out and pays her ketubah—and they don't need to [this about] say 200 for a virgin or 100 for a non-virgin [that of course if she leaves without her ketubah she doesn't get this money], but even more than this, even if her ketubah is 100 maneh, she can lose it all and receive only the rags that she can find in front of her.
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