תלמוד על כתובות 143:27

HALAKHAH: “If somebody causes a vow of his wife that she should not pay condolence visits,” etc. ⁴⁸In the Babli, 72a, and Tosephta 7:4: “fine and coarse sieves and portable ovens.””If he made her vow not to lend out fine and coarse sieves, he shall divorce her and pay the ketubah, since he gives her a bad reputation among her [female] neighbors. And so if she made a vow not to lend out fine and coarse sieves, she should leave without ketubah since she gives him a bad reputation among his [male] neighbors.” ⁴⁹Babli, 72a, In Tosephta 7:5: She will die and nobody will care.”If he made her vow not to pay condolence visits or go to weddings, he shall divorce her and pay the ketubah, since tomorrow a relative of hers will die and nobody will take notice of her. And so if she made a vow not to pay condolence visits or go to weddings, she should leave without ketubah since tomorrow a relative of his will die and nobody will take notice of him.” ⁵⁰Similar but slightly different texts in Babli, 72a, and Tosephta 7:6 (Eccl. 7:6).”Rebbi Meïr is saying in the name of his teacher Rebbi Aqiba: ‘It is better to pay condolence visits than to go to a wedding since the former is the end of every human, and the living should take notice.’ Why does the verse say, ‘and the living should take notice’? But do so they shall: eulogize so they should eulogize, bury so they should bury, accompany⁵¹Accompany the coffin to the cemetery. so they should accompany.”