Commentary for Ketubot 81:4
אמר ליה רב פפא לאביי ניחא לה לדידה מאי דלמא לא ניחא ליה לאביה ניחא ליה לאביה מאי דלמא לא ניחא להו לבני משפחה ניחא להו לבני משפחה מאי אי אפשר דליכא חד במדינת הים דלא ניחא ליה:
Papa said to Abaye: What if she is okay [with his testimony]? Perhaps it is not okay with her father. [What if it is also] okay with her father? Perhaps it is not okay with her family members. [What if it is also] okay with her family members? It is not possible that there is not one [family member] abroad with whom it is not okay.
Rashi on Ketubot
She would prefer - to allow (lit. raise) the scandal, in order to gain financially [as she would now receive compensation]:
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Rashi on Ketubot
The family would not prefer - and it is not upon (within the ambit of) the court to do something that would reinforce their (the family's) embarrassment:
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