Reference for Ketubot 143:4
ואם אמר לה ע"מ שתאמרי: ותימא אמר רב יהודה אמר שמואל דברים של קלון:
If he said to her: “[There shall be no prohibition] provided you tell so-and-so what you have told me” [or “what I have told you”]: But let her say it? Rav Judah said in the name of Shmuel: [This refers to] disgraceful language.
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