Reference for Kiddushin 62:4

אמר ליה רב יעקב בר אבוה לאביי כגון אנא דעד דאתינא מבי רב אבא מדלי לי כסא ואמא מזגה לי היכי איעביד א"ל מאמך קביל ומאבוך לא תקבל דכיון דבר תורה הוא חלשה דעתיה

R'Jacob B'Abbahu asked Abaye: 'I, for instance, for whom my father pours out a cup [of wine] and my mother mixes it<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' Their wines were diluted, being too strong to be drunk neat.');">⁵</span> on my returning from the school, what am I to do'?<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' Am I to permit it, or do I fail in the honour due to them?');">⁶</span> - 'Accept it from your mother,' he replied: 'but not from your father; for since he is a scholar, he may feel affronted.'<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' Though he loves you and does it willingly, he may feel that his son should not permit a scholar to perform these services for him.');">⁷</span>

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