Reference for Pesachim 129:3
אפ"ה איבעי להו לזרוזי נפשייהו כדתני' רבי אומר אי אפשר לעולם בלא בסם ובלא בורסי אשרי מי שאומנתו בסם אוי לו מי שאומנתו בורסי ואי אפשר לעולם בלא זכרים ובלא נקבות אשרי מי שבניו זכרים אוי לו מי שבניו נקבות:
What should they have done! - Even so, they should have hurried themselves, as it was taught: Rabbi said: The world cannot exist without a perfume maker and without a tanner: happy is he whose craft is [that of] a perfume maker, [and] woe to him whose craft is [that of] a tanner. Nor can the world exist without males and females: happy is he whose children are males, [and] woe to him whose children are females.<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' This was not said in a spirit of contempt for the female sex, but in the realization of the anxieties caused by daughters; v. Sanh. 100b, (Sonc. ed.) p. p. 681) .');"><sup>4</sup></span>