Related for Ketubot 111:16
דתניא האומר לאשה הרי את מקודשת לי על מנת שאין ליך עלי שאר כסות ועונה הרי זו מקודשת ותנאו בטל דברי רבי מאיר ר' יהודה אומר בדבר שבממון תנאו קיים
As it was taught: If a man said to a woman, “Behold you are betrothed to me on condition that you will have no [claim] on me [for] food, clothing or conjugal rights,” she is betrothed and the stipulation is invalid, the words of R. Meir. R. Judah said: In respect of monetary matters his stipulation is valid.
Tosefta Kiddushin
"[Be betrothed to me] with the understanding that if I die you will not bound to a levir"—she is betrothed but his stipulation is invalid, for he stipulated against what was written in the Torah, and anyone who stipulates against what is written in the Torah, his stipulation is invalid. "With the understanding that I will have no responsibility for you for clothing or sex"—she is betrothed but his stipulation is invalid. This is the pneumonic: Anyone who stipulates against what is written in the Torah regarding a monetary matter—his stipulation stands; with a non-monetary matter—his stipulation is invalid.
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