Related for Ketubot 129:3
אלא מעתה אכלה ולא אכל הכי נמי אנן מדשני קרא בדבוריה קאמרינן מכדי בגוה קא עסיק ואתי מאי טעמא שני ש"מ שתה ולא שתת
If so, “She had eaten” but he did not eat? What we say is [that the deduction may be made] because the text has deliberately been changed. Since it was dealing with her, why did it change [the form]? Deduce from this that he drank and that she did not drink.
Tosefta Ketubot
A man who supports his wife through a third party, all of [the measurements of items he has to give her laid out in Mishnah Ketubot 5:8] have to be Italian measures, regardless whether she is a menstruant, sick or waiting for her levir [in other words: it doesn't matter her situation, the measurements are the same]. He has to give her a cup, barrel, pot, jug, lamp and wick. She doesn't get wine because wives of poor men don't drink wine. She doesn't get a mattress because the wives of poor men don't sleep on mattresses.
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