Related for Ketubot 217:2
<big><strong>גמ׳</strong></big> מתני' דלא כי האי תנא דתניא אמר רבי יוסי ברבי יהודה לא נחלקו אדמון וחכמים על הפוסק מעות לחתנו ופשט לו את הרגל שיכולה היא שתאמר אבא פסק עלי מה אני יכולה לעשות
GEMARA. Our Mishnah does not accord with the following Tanna. For it was taught: R. Yose son of R. Judah stated, Admon and the sages did not disagree about a man who promised a sum of money to his [prospective] son-in-law and then defaulted, that his daughter may say “My father has promised on my behalf, what can I do?”
Tosefta Ketubot
Said Rabbi Yose son of Rabbi Yehudah: Admon and Hakhamim did not disagree (in Mishnah Ketubot about one whose father agreed [to add money in the dowry] for her that she is able to say: "My father agreed [this money] for me. What am I able to do? Either marry me or divorce me!" Regarding what [case] did they disagree? When she agreed to pay it herself. Admon says: She is able to say: "I thought my father would pay me, but now that my father is not paying me, what am I able to do? Either marry me or divorce me!" Said Rabban Gamliel: I agree with the words of Admon. One who agreed money for his minor daughter [in her dowry] and then tried to weasel out of it, they force him to pay, for one can act [in a minor's] favour but not to their detriment.
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