Responsa for Ketubot 121:11
והצעת המטה אמר רבא לא אמרן אלא בפניו אבל שלא בפניו לית לן בה: ומזיגת הכוס שמואל מחלפא ליה דביתהו בידא דשמאלא אביי מנחא ליה אפומא דכובא רבא אבי סדיא רב פפא אשרשיפא
“Making his bed:” Rava said: This refers only to doing so in his presence. But not in his presence, there is no prohibition. “Filling his cup:” Shmuel–his wife passed it to him with her left hand. Abaye—[His wife] placed it on the edge of the wine cask Rava– [His wife placed it] at the head of the couch. Papa—[His wife put it] on his foot-stool.
Teshuvot Maharam
Those who throw keys or money into the hands of their wives during their menstruation period, should be sharply rebuked. Throughout this period until her immersion in a ritual bath, the wife should put down such articles for the husband to pick up, and the husband should put them down for the wife to pick up, but, throwing articles to each other at this period is prohibited.
SOURCES: Cr. 124.
SOURCES: Cr. 124.
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