Responsa for Yevamot 67:11
אמר רב עמרם אמר רב בשופעות מתוך י"ג לאחר שלשה עשר לאחיובי אינהו מתוך שנים עשר לאחר שנים עשר לחיובי אינהי:
All these,<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' Prohibitions, enumerated in our Mishnah. ');"><sup>29</sup></span> it may well be conceded, may occur [simultaneously] where [the brothers] appointed an agent<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' To betroth the women on their behalf. ');"><sup>30</sup></span> and [the sisters also] appointed an agent<span class="x" onmousemove="('comment',' To accept on their behalf the tokens of betrothal. ');"><sup>31</sup></span>
Teshuvot Maharam
Q. What is the meaning of the following statement in Yer. Yuma, 1,1: "Those who wed widows must marry them long before sunset in order that they perform no act of possession on the Sabbath day."?
A. The Huppah ceremony is the marriage proper for a maiden, while the essential marital act for the widow who remarries is cohabitation. Therefore, a person marrying a widow must consummate the marriage before sunset (on Friday) lest he first cohabit with her on the Sabbath and thus perform an act of possession on the Sabbath.
SOURCES: L. 151.
A. The Huppah ceremony is the marriage proper for a maiden, while the essential marital act for the widow who remarries is cohabitation. Therefore, a person marrying a widow must consummate the marriage before sunset (on Friday) lest he first cohabit with her on the Sabbath and thus perform an act of possession on the Sabbath.
SOURCES: L. 151.
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